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The Discomfort You're Avoiding Could Be Your Biggest Breakthrough

When I get sick, I take it seriously. I rest. I drink fluids. I pay attention.

When I tweak my back lifting something wrong, I see someone. I do the exercises. I let it heal.

When I eat something that doesn't agree with me, I notice. I probably won't eat it again for a while.

Physical discomfort, I hon...

05.14.26 09:01 AM
Why we Misjudge People? The Hidden Impact of Assumptions & Labels

Business person. Coach. Hippie. Yogi. Health nut. Leader. Author.

I've been called all of these. Sometimes in the same week. And here's what I've noticed over four decades of working with people: whichever label someone pins on me determines the version of me they see.

When they see me as coach they s...



05.06.26 09:10 AM
Why People Confuse Dominance and Control for Leadership?

If you gather a group of school-age children and leave them alone with something as simple as a ball, a game will almost always emerge.

One child will step forward, decide what game to play, and begin organising others into teams. Another may take on a similar role for the opposite side. Occasionally...

04.13.26 08:26 AM
The Journey Behind My First Book

My father could have been an entrepreneur, but he never became one.

 

He had the drive, the talent, and the skills. He was a tool-and-die maker — a craftsman who understood how to turn ideas into something real. He tried many business ideas over the years: custom water glasses, back massagers on ...

03.24.26 07:53 AM
How Rites of Passage Drive Leadership Transformation

The Stranger at the Door

 
He walked in out of the rain and asked to speak with the owner.
 
I had no idea who Mark was. New to town, networking, he said. He wanted to learn about the business climate in town. But the networking I knew didn’t look like this. Within fifteen minutes of sitting d...



03.12.26 11:25 AM
The Power of Authenticity: How Embracing Your ‘Weird’ Builds Stronger Relationships

Last month, Sarah and I went to a fundraising dinner for Whatcom Dream, a local organization doing meaningful work around financial literacy in our community. Good cause. Good people. And exactly the kind of large, structured social event I tend to brace myself for.

I'm not antisocial. I have close f...

03.12.26 10:55 AM
I Showed Up Grumpy. Glad I did!

The Power of Showing Up: Why Commitment and Self-Awareness Matter More Than You Think


Last Thursday evening, I almost stayed home. The couch called to me like an old friend, and exhaustion from a busy week weighed me down. I didn’t want to be around more people, to have to be “on” again. Honestly, I ...


02.17.26 09:01 AM
The Secret to High-Performing Teams: Lessons from Starling Murmurations

When Teams Move Like Starlings

I've watched a lot of leadership teams over the years. Most function well enough—meetings happen, decisions get made, projects move forward. But every so often, I witness something different. A team that anticipates each other. That builds on ideas before they're fully ...
02.05.26 10:13 PM
    You are the owner, No one wants to say "NO" to you!

You built it. You funded it. You live and breathe it. You are theOwner, the visionary, the person who makes the final call.

In that position, there's a powerful, subtle truth that eventually becomes a trap:When you are the Owner, no one tells you “No.”

This isn't a power trip; it's a structural realit...

01.20.26 06:29 AM
Case Study: From CEO Coaching to Organization-Wide Momentum (6 Months)

Snapshot

A fast-moving organization brought me in to coach the CEO. As the engagement progressed it was expanded to first include the senior leadership team, then the managers, and finally key individual contributors. The result wasn’t a “coaching initiative” layered on top of a strained culture. It ...
01.08.26 06:58 AM